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(But I thought he was the one)
In continuing with my help the ladies out mode, due to recent events, I thought I’d write a post about what to do when you figured out that the guy you hooked up with is a player, pickup artist, seducer of many women and a man about town. You know how it goes, you meet this incredibly charming nice guy who says all the right things. He makes you laugh, teases you a little, seems interesting. After a couple of drinks it’s obvious that there is a connection between the both of you. After knowing this guy for less than four hours you decide it’s a good idea to take him home and let him “beat it up like a champ”.
Of course you never ever do things like having a one night stand but after telling a group of friends you find out that the guy you hooked up with has a reputation for seducing women into bed often in the same night! A sudden wave of panic and shock comes over you as you realize that you’ve just got got.
It’s like Bruce Willis at the end of Sixth Sense, It’s like the end of Book of Eli when the major plot twist is revealed. It’s like when Ray J finds out that “Luscious, she smashed the homie” just like Danger smashed the homie in season 1. It’s like me watching the end of the movie Doubt,
Meryl Streep: (on park bench in Garden), Oh Sister James, I don’t know for sure if Father Brendan actually infiltrated that young boy’s bum hole…. I have so much… DOUBT! Roll Credits
VK: Are you fucking kidding me, that’s it! Awww hell no!
At this moment you feel ashamed, taken advantage of, vulnerable, and if the sex was done right even a little dirty. But this is exactly the time you need to keep your head and not do anything dare I say… “crazy”. Take a few minutes to realize some things.
First many women today and through out history have got got now and then by players. Women way better than you. Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Jennifer Aniston, Hillary Clinton and even Mother Teresa back in the day. Hell even I eat a dick sandwich from a girl once or twice a year. It happens to everybody. One time I was on the fourth date with this girl I was working on, FOURTH. At a nice little restaurant we’re having a great time and that’s when she decides to tell me she’s just wants to be friends… after she ordered the lobster. YOINK! So again you are not alone, everybody plays the fool.
Another thing to consider is with all things being equal would you have hooked up with the guy anyway? When you think about it all a player/PUA did was pick up on the subtle signs you were giving out that you wanted to be picked up. Got that? Nothing more nothing less. Let’s be honest if another guy came along that was attractive and kept his mouth shut, you probably would have gone home with that guy too. Bottom line you wanted to get banged the PUA banged you, it’s all pretty simple when you think about it.
This leads to my third point, don’t try to justify the bang. After hooking up with a player many women will try to tell themselves and their friends reasons to why the hook up happened. I was in a vulnerable place emotionally, my cat just died, I was bored, I was on ecstasy, he tricked me into thinking he was a nice guy, alcohol aka The Jamie Foxx excuse. Before you found out he was gamer you thought he was ok and the hook up with him. After, all of a sudden he “tricked” you or there was some crazy circumstance that was behind the two of you hooking up?
Finally, the last ditch effort of any scorned female who hooks up with a player will be to discredit his sexual performance and more specifically talk shit about the size of his dick. I understand that this is some weird female self defense mechanism and it’s something girls do to feel better about themselves. But publically even in the company of each other it’s become cliché. If truth be told most of you girls wouldn’t know a big dick if it literally smacked you in the face. If we’re talking about people and not sex toys some girls run their mouths like they only sleep with NBA players. Some girls use the small dick line so much one must wonder if it’s a small dick problem or a really big vagina problem. And by now it’s become common knowledge that if you’ve hooked up with this guy more than once or in the morning after the first hook, this claim is automatically discredited. What did you think his dick would get bigger than the last time or he was holding out secret moves on you he didn’t do the first time?
Like I said this happens to everybody, no exception to the rules. Guys date girls that seem nice and then you find out that she smashed half the homies. Girls meet nice guys and find out that he’s a player known for running tight game. Nothing either side can do to erase the fact that you both hooked up and made a quick connection. When it’s over bitch to your small close friends but then get over it and move on. Obsessing over the why’s and how’s of the matter does nothing. Trying to stalk and talk shit about the guy results in the blow back of, “yeah, but you’re the one who fucked him, so what does that say about you”.
If there’s one thing you learn from this post let it be this…..
I don’t know why it’s so hard for a girl to admit that game worked on them.
It’s like someone trying to say advertising doesn’t work on them.
“Bottom line you wanted to get banged the PUA banged you, it’s all pretty simple when you think about it.”
Denial is more than a river in Egypt.
The last time a guy successfully gamed me when I did not wish to be gamed was late ‘08.
Afterwards, when we were lying in my bed, I turned to him and broke down exactly what he did that made me want him, want to sleep with him, then complimented him on his game. He thanked me, then started telling me stories of how he came up with his methods, how often they had worked, what his no-fail LMR tactic was (which is what he used on me and I was so enamoured with).
I still bring up his tactics when explaining game to my guy friends, when they need tips and tricks for handling LMR.
I’m glad you made the point that everybody plays the fool sometime. I don’t know anyone, male or female, or hasn’t done some dumb stuff over someone they loved or were trying to get with.
The thing to take away is that for every guy who writes you off because you smashed a homie, there’s a guy like Tom Green who’s trying to sneak his way in.
dave for the win
“she smashed the homie” is gonna become permanent lingo
Roosh,
because they’re girls, I mean come on, the answer is in the question.
Jay,
tel em,
Fleshy Poetry,
Something tells me you “like” being gamed well. interesting
Jamila,
Or for a stripper, these things happen
Dave,
Its’ weird but I think every guy has a Tom Green in the crew, he turns beta real quick when nobody is looking to comfort the girl you just pumped and dumped. We need to come up with a name for that
The Rookie,
T shirts have been made…. this is not a joke
“you know nothing about my situation”….that situation where I fucked some guy? girls….I like how RayJ pulls the ULTIMATE acceptance/PUA line “everyone’s got a past”.
“he yelled on top of his lungs.”
male or female….that’s a stupid thing to say. seriously. then comes the tears….shocker.
i do admire her attempt to flip the script and play victim…for being outed for fucking some guy…that she lied about….fucking. “fa real”.
God I love me some Roosh. I’d do him
“It’s weird but I think every guy has a Tom Green in the crew, he turns beta real quick when nobody is looking to comfort the girl you just pumped and dumped. We need to come up with a name for that.”
How about “Leftover Larry”? He’s comforting her because he’s hoping to tear off a piece of sloppy seconds. Funny thing is, not only will he NOT get any, but she would immediately jump back into the sack with the guy who pumped and dumped her in the first place!
Didn’t Tom Green hump a dead moose?
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=60282376
I think Tom Green wasn’t really turning beta, I think he was having fun at her expense. It was too make fun of her, notice how all the other girls are cracking up while Tom Green is white knighting. He goes deliberately over the top with it for laughs. Everyone gets it but her, even the other girls. It’s one extra dig he’s getting in on her, that on top of everything else she’s too dumb to know when she’s being mocked. Which she proved by praising his white knighting.
Tom Green was definitely mocking her. That said, there are a lot of guys who take that route. It’s a desperate move, and I don’t remember any instances where I’ve actually seen it work.
I’m really liking this new VK 2010. all the posts this year have been great, keep up the good work.
lol damn that was some hilarious shit.
“luscious she smashed the homies!”
“half of them out of jail luscious.”-ray j
now i know why Dre got the bang.
Who is the crazy blogger written about at Roosh’s? Is it KassyK? She’s from NJ so I guess that would make her a “northern girl”.
It’s not that I like being gamed, it’s just that it’s so rare for someone to successfully pull it off without me noticing and stopping them or noticing and aiding them (if I feel the desire)… I can’t respect a man I can see through. I can’t respect a man I can outdo. It leaves me constantly feeling underwhelmed and rather isolated.
No, it is definitly NOT KassyK. Try 5 minutes of googling the clues that the “crazy bitch” gave…
I love how Kassy K becomes the automatic default answer whenever there’s some controversy with female DC bloggers. Poor girl.
T–I know…its so bizarre. I’m used to it. I am nothing like that chick’s email and I’ve had a boyfriend for a decade.
Wondering–No its not me. For one, I would never WRITE something like that–nor would I ever think that way. My brain just does not work like that. At all.
I’ve been real life good friends with Roosh and VK AND blogging for almost four years.
This girl is a new blogger, she is “in the scene”, she comments, she is part of the new blog scene.
I haven’t been for a long time.
Wondering–Also, you can easily find out who it is. Easily.
Also just so you know–I am of Middle Eastern descent. I would never use the term “sand nigger.” Vile.
I was a late late bloomer (college), so all that stuff that chick wrote about high school…yea, not even CLOSE to my experience. In fact, almost everything she wrote is opposite to my experiences and feeling in life.
I had skin cancer this year so I wasn’t exactly visiting Colombia to see my friend Roosh. I was recouperating from surgery.
I am “wondering” who you are. No one would guess me in this situation. That is just odd.
I will state for the record that KassyK is my blog protege, not stalker.
where is the final part of rookie’s 80s night story. i’m fiending for the ending here!
Girls don’t talk shit about alphas, only betas. (See: Tiger Woods)
I also like the way Poetry of Flesh puts it.
i read over at roosh’s what was done to that girl and it was just terrible. i’ve been reading roosh for some time now and that was a new low even for him. i get the feeling that roosh’s take was only half of the story. what an asshole he and you vk, are. i’m a guy who is learning game to improve myself but the girl didn’t seem to need that kind of attack. i would never use game or a blog if i decide to start one to put someone through that.
That lobster was delicious - thanks VK!