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It was a Saturday and I was at Busboy and Poets reading a book and waiting for Roosh to show up so we could start the night. I was sitting on the couch and an extremely attractive sleepy head (Asian) was sitting on my right. I could feel her eyes on me but I was deep in my book . I ordered my favorite desert and I could feel every girl at the table look at it.
Eventually I would ask her to barrow a pen to mark a passage in my book and she replied with an enthusiastic yes of course. She then went on to offer me an extra pen of my own to use fully. We went back to our own thing and she stopped what she was doing and asked about the cheesecake while trying to decide what to order. I told her it was good and she should get it. This gave way to us talking about what she did and why each other wast there. She just got back in town and was taking care of some family issue in the Philippines. Based on her English she wasn’t FOB (Fresh of the boat) sleepy but one that has grown up and went to school here. Roosh showed up and our conversation continued after introduction. When her meal showed up she insisted that I tried some with her. I told her about different bars and lounges close by that we liked to hangout at. At the end she finally asked what my name was and told me hers with a warm handshake. She said that she came here often so I told her I’d see her around.
As we walked out Roosh asked me why the hell I didn’t get her phone number. According to him the day game signals she was giving me was the equivalent of a tipsy girl dry humping you on the dance floor then pulling out your junk and jerking you off right there. Apparently she was obviously that into me.
Right now I have a problem few men would ever openly complain about. I have too many women I’m fucking and talking to already. Honestly I never in my life thought those words would come out of my mouth. Apparently I’m in a game zone where I can do no wrong. I’ve got the 24 year old dogooder, the 27 year old Polish chick, the 27 year old Bitchy Bosnian and regularly talk to her friend who will be moving here mid July, Slut Pants. Slut Pants keeps telling me how she can’t wait to hangout with me = she wants me to beat that pussy up.
All this action has somehow left me drained and overwhelmed. My days are spent at work, the gym, then a date where I might bang and if I don’t I have to go home and text or call back one or two girls. Oh did I mention that I accidently slipped and banged The Cripple again so now she’s back on the tip? often times The Rookie and Roosh want to meet up on a Thursday and I cant because I have a date. When Its the weekend you’d think I’d be out getting new numbers but one of the girls finds away to crash guys night out with her friends or I’m too lazy and need to squeeze her in because I couldn’t see her during the week and she wants the cock. I think Timothy Ferriss put it best in his book The 4-Hour Work Week.
“The more options you consider, the more buyer’s regret you’ll have”
“The more options you encounter, the less fulfilling your ultimate outcome will be”
This little debacle has made me rethink some things about game, the fact that game theory itself is an ever evolving state of consciousness when it comes to thoughts about women. Ultimately this is what real end game feels like, you’re at a point where you have more than enough options. This experience has taught me that having more option doesn’t equate to more happiness in fact it’s the inverse. As a fat wise man once said, “more money more problems”. I wonder how much longer I can keep this juggling up, eventually the balls will have to fall and part of me wants this to happen just so I can rest. I’m slowly losing my sanity, keeping track of all this.
I’ve already told the crew that by September, I’m picking one and retiring. I turn 30 in October I’ve done everything in game I set out to do when I got into all this, I’ve come so far that at this point dating and being with one girl seems appealing and challenging at the same time… who knew.
you have plenty of time to change your mind
haha I’d say something snarky or dumb in response to that, but, honestly, after starting to read this blizog again after a long while of rejecting the game and picking one and losing one and keeping my head on the straight no swivel, all I can say is simply:
Round of applause for you sir!
Now pick one and stop so the rest of us normal loser people have a fucking fighting chance for christ’s sake. I swear to God, when I get back to DC, if there’s no women to be had anywhere or if they’re all “VK this” “VK that” I am gonna throw in the towel and move back to the country.
” I told her it was good and she should get it.” Yeah.
the current team you have will not last . Teams never do
i suspect before September the rotation of new members will spark some thrill and make you not wanna give the game up entirely . also another suggestion , rather than going straight to ONE chick , you should whittle down to three , then two and see how you feel at that point
the smart money is on Crippled.
No sir, i disagree.
The money is on a yet to be met chica who presents unusual problems of youth/inexperience, overprotective parents and brothers yet is too lovely to give up on. Think Appollonia but with stricter parents.
Rookie,
Nah son, I’m out the game, nothing left in it for me. Let me be happy, a pass it to you now.
Twoste,
There’s probably one or two me or my team hasn’t been with, but you better get back quick, Summer is almost over
Tazzy,
I’m just tired and want to focus my energy on the next move in my life instead of the next girl.
Melodia,
Is she Foreign with a nice phatty? If so she should hurry up and get at me, September is coming quick
practical question: how do you split/manage your time between 3-4 girls?
that’ll last for a month or so. then you’ll get bored. it’s tempting to think about some one-itis when you’re in a deluge of gash.
VK…Our lives are fucking identical….
I tried just picking one not too long ago and it gets old so quick. And then the opportunities you used to take advantage of….you end up still taking advantage of because you can’t help it.
Dating lots of women is one of those things that sounds better than it is. It becomes a second job after a while.
The 1 girl thing definitely is a challenge. She can be flawless, beautiful, the greatest woman in the world in your eyes, but damn son, hitting the same pussy day in and day out for too long gets old. Especially when you’ve got temptation staring you in the face. Variety is a motherfucker.
Ahhh yes … the Parodox of Choice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VO6XEQIsCoM
VK,
I suspect “serial monogamy” would be more appropriate for you rather than permanent monogamy.
I have to agree with other commenters — You literally self-actualized to be with women of a certain criteria for a certain amount of time.
Neil Strauss — a gamesman that could be said to share your sensibilities, gifts and intelligence — went through similar initial experiences and then tried to move to the other extreme [regular monogamy] only to both get bored of his girl and to have her stolen by Robbie Williams!
Find “The Golden Mean” and you will find satisfaction.
I never knew that about day girls. I will have to try it.
But I’ve seen the Hunter loose interest in the game, which is why I prefer sticking with 1.