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It usually works like this, when I first start sleeping with a girl I try to let my intentions be known on what exactly I want. It’s ok to be a player as long as it’s done with honor and some class. If you lead girl on just for sex that’s low and the sad part is most of the time it’s not necessary. I often try to tell the girl
A) I like having fun and I’m just looking to “hangout”. Letting them know I’m not really looking for a relationship just a little “Bom chicka wah wah”.
B) I’m interested in getting into a relationship with them in the near future but I’m still down for a little “Slap and tickle” right now.
The thing is when you go with A some girls take that as you being full of yourself and assuming that just because you lay great pipe she wants to marry you and have 10,000 of your babies. Some come back with the “I never said I wanted to date you either” line with such anger in their tone, forgetting that all I tried to do was make sure I wasn’t leading them on. I know some girls are fully capable of having NSA relationships some girls aren’t. I’m not a mind reader and don’t know which is which so I try to be honest and cover my base.
Some girls try to act like they can be the non emotional roll with it girls when they’re not. Imagine my surprise when I heard “through the grape” that a couple of girls from my recent past were kind of upset when I stopped with the way things were going to move on. These same girls though gave me the whole devil may care easy breezie attitude when I tried to tell them Plan A. They acted like they just wanted the “Bom chicka wah wah”.
A woman’s actions often betray her words and her heart often betrays her logical brain. That’s why I stress in a any form of a relationship you should always be talking talking talking and when you’re done talking talk some more. The chances of miscommunication is just too great. As soon as you get physical with a guy you should also be open enough to tell him your TRUE expectations emotionally. In my case I would have handled thing a lot differently, maybe with more care than I did. But honestly I had no clue.
wha? women don’t say what they mean? and don’t believe when we tell them ‘no surrsly i dont wanna be your boyfriend’? weird.
good call about the communications part. i also recommend signed and notorized documents.
good point…but its not JUST girls…if i had a dollar for every boy who went stalker and jealous AFTER the” I just want the boom chicka wah wah” talk…. I’d be a couple months ahead on my porsche payments…
xoxo
VK, you know I am with you on the communications thing. But I will argue this: it’s possible that someone doesn’t know what they want until they get to know someone. Who can resist the VK flavor when they’ve had a taste?
But I don’t think that’s what you’re saying really: You’re talking about self-knowledge, which fear or need or anxiety can keep us from. There’s nothing tough about pretending. It takes more courage to be vulnerable in life. Living with rejection is so difficult when we link our worth to someone else’s opinion of us.
“I’d be a couple months ahead on my porsche payments…”
and a couple guys short of World’s Greatest Slut.
it was there. i had to.
Sounds like you’ve been plucking sour grapes. Wasn’t that the sidekick of the Peculiar Purple Pieman? I’m choosy about my vines. I never know what I’m going to get or even if it’s true. Things often get distorted.
Most guys can’t seem to figure out who they are what they want in the first place. So, women have the hard job of deciphering what it all means. If girls would just make you dummies wait then you may actually understand that there is more to a woman than two tight holes and an open mouth. It would also give the woman a chance to know the REAL you.
just sayin
Paully,
I agree with the signed and notorized document. I was thinking about getting them to also sign a confidentiality agreement. If word got out about my extremely small penis, shit would get wild
Suicide Blond
I really wouldn’t be able to write about boys going jealous and stalking me so to me it’s just girls. But then again if you’re driving a porsche, I’d stalk to, I mean damn can a brotha get a hand out?
Jess,
“Who can resist the VK flavor when they’ve had a taste?”
LOL, now you know I’m going to start using that when I’m out at the bar.
VK less filing taste great.
Now stop being deep with the whole “when we link our worth to someone else’s opinion of us” My readers aren’t ready for that yet.
Roissy,
Hey, save your stand up routine for your own blog. nah that was a good line go head.
Kristin,
nah, my grapes aren’t sour at all just well fermented
Douglesworth,
Your a fucking idiot, kill yourself now.
just saying
With your comment to Douglesworth in calling him/her an idiot, you misspelled a common English conjunction of the words You and Are - it should read “You’re a fucking idiot” the other way doesn’t mean anything and proves to people that YOU are the idiot.
Women have brains made from sponge cake.
‘Nuff said.
mmmmmm, sponge cake.
Contraction, that is.
Anon,
Wow that’s interesting giving advice because you never rush anything then coming back to correct yourself….. idiot
sorry I didn’t take enough time to proof read my insult to the twatwaffle who has nothing better to do than right a parody blog hating on bloggers then going to those bloggers blog to comment and drive traffic to their pathetic site.
Twoste,
Some times the taste like sponge cake too
Wendy,
read twoste’s comment
The great thing about communicating with women is that they love to talk, too bad they never mean anything they say.
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